Why are men advised to be a challenge or play women in men’s dating advice books?

I have read about various tactics that men use on women to try to hook up with a hot woman. They are advised to be a challenge, use disconnectors (like cutting them off on purpose, saying they have to go, saying they don’t want to do something, saying they are bored or forgot to call, for exs.) to get a woman’s attention, This is necessary because beautiful women are spoiled brats with low frustration tolerance (an actual Psychology term). In other words, they are used to getting what they want, and when they don’t they are irritated and will start working harder to get what they want- supposedly the man who is being a challenge. So what do feminists or men who have tried to do this or would not do this think? Does this work, is all this game playing necessary or is it the typical man-woman power struggle?

Actually, it’s usually genuine boredom and a decision to get on to better more important things.

Women have a habit of reading more into things than is really there.

If this makes a woman “work harder” that’s a good thing , maybe she’ll be less of a bore next time.

*** In the past , in an attempt to be polite or chivalrous a guy might sit through a lousy date, but these days ,why should he ?

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